After last night’s EBT Awards, it looks like Black America* has a decision to make. After blackballing Chris Brown during last year’s Michael Jackson tribute, the network allowed him on stage for a singing and dancing medley of his hero’s hits. And he nailed it.
And with that, Black folks forgot all about Rihanna’s beatdown.
Not the least bit of irony should be lost that his performance was dedicated to Jackson, another entertainer with a tainted personal history but overwhelming fan support. The crying breakdown** during the attempted performance of “Man In The Mirror” really should touch even the most calloused, reverberating through every soul with a reminder that no one among us is perfect, just as Michael Joseph intended.
Black folks have a sketchy history with welcoming their singers back from an accused criminal past. James Brown, Ike Turner and, more recently, R. Kelly. All figures we gave a collective side-eye to once we found out once we found out they’d done despicable acts towards women. I told Tins last night that, if Brown were a rapper, the beatdown really would never have been an issue (anybody really remember that Dr. Dre smacked up Dee Barnes back in the day? Thought so).
But of their R&B singers, audiences expect a gentleman figure. One to serenade them at night, but protect them during the day. A bit more effeminate than macho and definitely not violent. Last nights tears showed more remorse and did more in the way of public apology than any of his previous public apology attempts. Thus, the previous castoff still could regain his Black star power in one night’s performance. As Contra initially said, “Rap, sing. Whatever. Young black entertainer, entertain us” and that’s all most desire. His pop appeal may take much longer to recover still.
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* And I say Black people because I don’t think White folks watched the EBT’s, trumped Entourage’s season premiere and True Blood. Hell, I’m Black, I didn’t view it and I don’t think I’m in the minority. When asked if I wanted to attend again this year, I didn’t really think twice about saying “thanks but no thanks.” If White people did watch, let’s hope they were ones behind brands so buddy can get his endorsement campaigns back and his music back in stores.
** Men don’t cry. Not in public, private or even in the dark. If anything, they seek complete solitude, which gives way to total secrecy. In order to gain machismo back, Chris will have to murder everyone who witnessed his tears, an unlikely undertaking and one that wouldn’t help his public image either.



I didn’t even read the post yet but I died at EBT award. ahahahahahhaahhahaahha!
it was an easssy pass for me lol. make no mistake that it’s definitely “fun” but I did not want to be bothered w/it. not my kind of soup.
BET, I am not Rihanna. I do not need Chris Brown shoved all down my throat (PAUSE).
That was some bull$hit, equipped with the “I’m so sincere” stares into the sky, etc.
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As I said yesterday on my Twitter: @MykeWayne So ya’ll Nigga’s are That Hard to where you never Cry? Thank God I ain’t get your life
Everybody done messed up and we all needed another shot. Don’t ruin a Man like that by not allowing him to be Human
Sorry Mike, I’m shallow like that lol.
Cry all he wants. Still not manly IMO.
The EBT Awards were catered by Ms. Juanita as she provided chicken fingers, fatback, pork rinds, and Grape Chek to the entertainers. Also, the show was sponsored by K-Mart and Citi Trends so I heard.
I’m Black, I didn’t view it
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dido that.
I remember when “Ignition” remix came out. Everybody was up and dancing like R Kelly didn’t just put out ‘Urine Fetish Forn for kids!’ out. They were dancing and singing right along. It really wasn’t far from that Boondocks episode from season 1. Of course he’s back, he could have murdered Ri Ri but if his song is popping by the next yr the general public will be like “Rhianna who??” Attention spans are waaaay too short lol
I thought it was a very sincere performance from the dude. We all know he was wrong for what he did, but lets be honest… how many of you still think that Rihanna was squeaky clean in this altercation?
Rihanna is foine!… and fine ass sistas have attitudes and sometimes huge tempers. I would put my money on homegirl putting her hands on him at one point in time.
Black celebs can get away with anything… beatdowns and golden showers. Just as long as they continue to accept Jesus Christ as their personal lord and savior…it’ll be alright for em!
BTW… I watched True Blood, Hung, and then Entourage last night.
Entourage did more for the advancement of good black music in one episode than EBT did all week.
he show was sponsored by K-Mart and Citi Trends so I heard.
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^ I don’t agree with that,”everyone done messed up….” come on he irrationality beat up someone up that not a mistake.
beside who cares about chris brown he make shitty music anyways!
Entourage did more for the advancement of good black music in one episode than EBT did all week.
Big Boi for the opening scene & Guru for the closing scene.
when i heard Shutterbug come on i was like ‘jeeeeeeeeeah’
i really hope he gets alotta shine with this album, its due
I didn’t watch…in fact I never do. The awards are bullshit and all I care about are a select few performances so I just surfed the internet this morning for those videos (Kanye, Em/Bob). I’m satisfied.
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I did the same thing wow still lmfao
i believe everything about his performance, from his inclusion in the event, to the sobbing breakdown during “man in the mirror” (really?!? did NOBODY see that shit coming?) was a tactical strategy planned out by the Nigga Network and Team Breezy to help him gain some cred after dropping a weedtray of an album, spazzing out at radio stations, and being denied a visa to tour in the UK based on his abuse of Rihanna – and i will continue to believe it until The Real Anonymous says something to prove me wrong.
all i saw during his whole lil’ song-and-dance number was Rihanna’s black eye, NOT a tribute to MJ.
I was cracking up when he started crying; at one point I even said to myself “Is dis nigga crying??”
But if that is what he had to do to save is music career so be it. Other than J Cole, the light skin brigade won big last night. LOL!!!
I agree with Douglas Howser, The rest of ya’ll are entitled to your opinion. Just keep it a hundred when You’re faced with the same obstacle, as far as redeeming yourself and Deserving a 2nd chance. Ever Been a Felon? You’d understand not getting a second Chance and The High when you’re actually accepted again by someone
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Like so many other people, I’ve been saying dude should have been done a MJ tribute. IMO, the entire set was authentic. Obviously he had the dance numbers down to a tee, but even the tears. In the past 18 months, his career went from pop superstar to public outcast to doing mixtapes with Tyga. What he did was wrong and he has to live with that for the rest of his life, but blackballing the dude isn’t the way to go either.
It’s really been him against the world for some time now. Idolizing Mike Jack and trying to sing “Man In The Mirror” isn’t the easiest thing I’d imagine.
I felt it was sincere & you could definitely see MJ in CB’s whole performance too! Easily 1 of the best if not the best performance of the night! Also this years BET Awards where actually good & 1 of the best 1′s in a few years! As I mentioned on my twitter it’s kind of sad in a way that it took them focusing more on the tributes then the current music scene for that to happen though! 1 of the only things I didn’t like was how Prince didn’t perform & they did J. Cole bogus! Oh yea Alicia on the piano during her Prince tribute performance was GOAT to! Woo wee she was getting it & she was really trying to have us all feel like raw dogging her & getting her pregnant again while she is prego!
lmao @ Prince’s reaction when Alicia climbed her preg ass onto that piano.
and WTF was Prince wearing?
looked like an Asian lady’s shirt with his own picture on it
This is great and all.. but has anybody seen the Aloe Blacc cover of Billie Jean?? [www.youtube.com]
pure dope!
If a former C.O. can lie about his past, rap about drug-kingpin shit & still be have a huge fanbase, Chris Brown will be OK. He’d have an easier time being forgiven if he were white, of course. But he’ll be OK.
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You gonna take advice from somebody who slapped Dee Barnes?
What’chu say?
What’s wrong? Didn’t think I’d remember?
I’ma kill you motherfucker!
Ah, ah, temper temper
I would like to know who gives these people the right to judge!!! At one time in our lives we have something that we are ashamed of. To all the men making comment how many can say that at on time in there lives they have not put their hands on a women. Not to say it right but how many of you will continue to be hit and not hit back?? I was reading a article this weekend that said Mel Gibson knocked his girlfiends tooth out. I wonder will this get as much press time..
i bet Rihanna kissed her teeth when she saw that shit…. and went back to watching the dodgers/yankees game
Yeah Douglas Howser. Entourage came on and I was like oh shit it’s Big Boi, then that song to end it, that was special.
Also I don’t think I’m going out on that far of a limb when saying just as many white people watch these awards and BET as black people
BET is on basic cable in most markets, Aron. More white people still have basic cable than POC so yeah. Whitefolk been out-watchin BET over blackfolk for about 10 yrs now. Media buyers and planners know what’s up.
As for CB? Unless that heffa pulled a bat or a knife or a gun on him, dudes actions remain inexcusable. And what’s more of a problem is the way he handled it since. Calling folk “haters” and whining about being blackballed by Wal-Mart…
Dude still doesn’t get that he beat up a girl he claimed to love. Folks who defend dude don’t seem to get that this is just unacceptable behavior. Or at least it should be.
I’m glad he got to have his little moment on stage, but whateva.
When dude puts some broad in the hospital everybody gon be like “Po Chris needs help.”
Nah. Po Chris needs a whompin cuz he still don’t get it.
I’M sorry did Riri apol 4 her actions-uhmmm no, oh that’s rt because she’s the woman its cool!- Did ppl forget she even went back 2 him after he beat her like most women do then cried wolf & played the victim only. I’m just saying be a real woman & say yes I hit him as well stop taking the punk route of victim- I mean we all cheered when Tina hit Ike back-
like most women do then cried wolf & played the victim only.
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Um…did you see her face?
that was a beatuiful performance. everyone makes mistakes; i mean come on now, he’s famous if it was any other person beating on someone people would just let it go. the kids made a mistake and hopefully learned from it.i personally think hes a great singer/dancer.
TBH it’s really not that impressive. I’m sure he did the same routine last year. Only difference was last year it was in a WaWa’s parking lot & this year it was on BET. All in all, the same amount of people probably saw his performance.
RMF…
i mean come on now, he’s famous if it was any other person beating on someone people would just let it go.
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Au contraire… I’d say his fame is the only reason he’s gettin second & third (& fourth & fifth) chances.
I still want this:
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I think him crying was a combination of MJ, everything he went through and him just getting another chance. I’m pretty sure a lot of people would’ve broke down if in the same position.
Also Chris Brown crying @ the BET Awards >>>>>>> Usher crying @ the Grammys.
LMBO!!!!!!!!!!!!
If this dude turned water into wine while performing I’d still do him like Judas (Pause)
It ain’t my place to forgive him for his fucked up behavior, but I’d suggest that he’s suffered enough. I think his only mistake (besides putting hands on that fine ass girl) was trying to get back in the public eye when he did, especially after all those pseudo-apologies.
If he makes a hit, I’ll nod at the club, but that’s about it. It was never more than that to begin with. It’s the young women that supported him and their parents that will determine his commercial fate.
Rihanna’s hand may not be sin free but the way Chris Brown did her was inexcusable. In a situation just as that, you ALWAYS remove yourself from it. Niggas are too old to let their anger get to them.
I for one stopped BET once I was old enough to realize that it doesn’t do anything for black people. What really solidify that idea is the fact that their CEO (or former CEO) was embarrassed of the channel and what it represented. If I want good black television, I go to TV one.
In a situation just as that, you ALWAYS remove yourself from it. Niggas are too old to let their anger get to them.
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Wasn’t buddy only like 21-22 @ the time?
Gotty, if a 22 yro Man works your 20 yro daughter like that, all we gonna be saying is “Yall see what Gotty did to that dude? Damn shame he gotta walk like that for the resta his life. But…”
I believe in forgiveness. Christians posed to forgive. But actin like this is okay? Nah…. I cant get with that.
I still think he was fakin
RiRi is older, and she wasn’t 21 yet. So he was like 19, turning 20 in a month or something.
Black C, pretty said it in a nutshell. and G, yep, too shallow to cry.
you got chris, show dem!
cry me a river
but then
SING !
It’s funny how people can judge, and comment on this topic, when we support worse people. This is a hip hop site, if I’m not mistaken, almost all hip hop artist have made reference to beatin bytches up. Scareface, “If I slap one hoe, then here man was next.” Juvenile, “You must heard about them hoes I beat up in my home.” there’s many more, but I don’t want you sensitive girls to get mad at your favorite rappers. Beatin up bytches is a way of life, as long as there are women who think the police and black men are funny, then there’s gonna be a man’s hand to slap some since in her. lol
8Ball – Real niggas believe in beatin them hoes down; push that head into the wall until you hear that crackin sound.
In the words of Riley, “Soooo gangsta!”
ok people yall got it wrong he was not able to be around when he first died so when he did his song that day it was emotional for him
oh another thing when that rev was caught beaten his wife every body just said she probably deserved it and everybody moved on and he became even bigger and richer just from that
Chris did MJ tributes in the past (Mtv Awards with Rihanna) and yes he did/does a great job dancing like MJ but how is this performance any different from older performances? The tears? It can’t be the singing because there was hardly any .. most of it was lip syncing.
Chris will be aiight and have a career but don’t see him ever making a true “comeback”.