Obviously Barack Obama’s election has caused a major paradigm shift in America for the various reasons we’ve all been hit over the head with over the last few days. What people don’t seem to address is how Obama affects another hot topic issue: interracial dating.
The idea of a Black man with a White woman on his arm sometimes raises eyebrows and even pisses some people off. Any Black fella out there who has dated a white girl has probably had to answer a few questions or defend his choice from at least one Black female out there. By the same token, the female has probably had to battle the accusation that she was in it as some sort of exploitative social experiment or to quell some inner desire to “try it out.” As you may recall, the relationship was most famously stigmatized in Yeezy’s “Golddigger,” in which Ye remarks that “when he gets on he’ll leave yo’ ass for a white girl.” Ideas like this have been the basis for the criticism for these interracial relationships. Then there’s the idea that the biracial child will be in an eternal struggle to find his or her identity due to the parents’ own racial identity insecurities.
Now, a product of such a union is the President. Furthermore, Obama’s father wasn’t a full-time part of his household, leaving the son to be raised by his white mother and maternal grandparents. Still, Barack has been able to stay true to his roots, crediting both sides of his family for his success and inspiring Black people across the country. The idea that a biracial child will be inherently “fucked up” doesn’t fly anymore
It’ll be interesting to see what happens now. The most powerful man on the planet is proud of his biracial identity. How will that trickle down to the everyday couple at the mall? His meteoric rise has brought about change and brand new ideas. One can only wonder if Obama’s success will make the whole “Jungle Fever” stereotype a thing of the past as well.
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I doubt it will change anything people will always have their preconceived notions. Hell if Michelle Obama was white he might have lost some votes. Interesting topic; but what scares/angers me is the fact I am hearing people start to say that Racism doesn’t exist anymore because President Elect Obama has won the election. As great a step him winning was, Racism is STILL alive and well.
Nah. Fuck That. Black should only be able to eat pork or fuck white women. You can’t do both.
Personally? I don’t eat pork.
LOL @ Deen.
Racism will never “die.” The only thing we can really hope for is that it’s presence continues to grow lesser & lesser over time.
I’m not black or white, so this doesn’t effect me.
In the words of Clevon Little:
“Where the White Women at?!”
Maybe I’ll just start pushin’ up on thick little blondes like:
“Hey girl. What you say me an you go make a future President?”
And all I’ll say is if we ever a mexican president (and we will), these latinas betta watchout. Mamacitas think cats is sweatin’ ‘em now, woah, it’s gonna be open season in 2016 when President Villaregosa gets sworn in. (he’s the mayor of L.A. and thinks he’s the next big thing politically.)
And don’t let Bobby Jindahl run an win—it’s some fine Indian sistahs out here.
@ Deen: LOL!!!!
I blame you for the snapple on my screen. Damn if OJ just choose the Pork he wouldn’t be in jail now.
@Gotty: `Your’re right that’s all we can hope for.
I’m not fessed about looks, I’m more concerned with can she cook? After all a way to a man’s heart is through his stomach, I’ll take a cooker over a looker any time of the day.
Great, now all the interracial couples have an excuse for procreating! “Well, look at how good Barack turned out!”. I’ll fuck any chick regardless of her race, but when it comes down to dating or marriage it’s straight up B-L-A-C-K for 500K. I’m not racist, I have love for all, it’s just that as dude who grew up without his parents I feel that I owe it to myself to marry a Black woman, plus raise a strong Black family.
Let me preface this by saying I’m not a racist & there are plenty of fair skinned ladies that I’d love to give the bizness. I’m not against interracial dating, buy personally, I couldn’t see myself wifed up with a white woman. 1st off, I think for a relationship to work, both parties should be able to understand where the other one is coming from & be able to share common experiences. A white chick from Park Ave. or the ‘burbs is not going to understand my life or where I’ve come from.The stigma attatched to it & the scrutiny our relationship would be under just turns me off.
Like Sistahs ain’t got enough reasons to be mad at brothas…
Daughter: Momma my little man gonna be president of the united states one day.
Momma: Is the father white?
Daughter: Uh… No.
Momma: Then no he won’t.
AMP,
Hiphop and motown and jazz got rid of all the stigma, baby! We’s a colorblind society now. We are officially post-racial. If i can get down me some Eminem + Justin Timberlake, etc. then i can get down with average white folks.
*falls off own soapbox laughing at self*
I’m biracial, and have never had any issues about my culture and identity. Growing up in the Bay Area i’m sure has something to do with that. Although I can clearly remember being harrassed by the black girls at school for having a black boyfriend.
I remember almost having to whup this white dude’s ass on the train. I get on & I see a fine ass black woman with a geeky ass white kid. It kinda pissed me off , but hey, that’s them. So I sit down & fire the iPod up, all the while, dude & homegirl are giving me the eye, prolly feeling self concious that their all hugged up on each other. So, next stop, a homeless guy gets on the train & yells out “Oh, ain’t that sweet. I dunno who’s prouder, the cracka for gettin a sistah, or the sistah for gettin a cracka!” I couldn’t help but let out a chuckle & dude starts giving me the ice grill. At first I try to ignore him & shorty is telling him to drop it, but after a minute I’m like “Ayo! This white dude really thinks he’s tough!” So I look up & give dude the grill back & he actually says “Is there a problem?”. I’m like” Fam, don’t get effed up trying to act hard for your girl. If you gotta beef, holla at the homeless guy.” Dude is turning red at this point & shorty is like “Babe, don’t lower yourself to his level.” In mind, I’m like “Lower yourself to my level? Are you serious?”. My stop was next anyway so I just take a deep breath, exhale & exit the train. As it pulled off, both of them were giving me the ice grill but I laughed it off cause I know the next dude he pulls that “tough guy” act on is gonna put a beatin on ol’ boy.
I’m tri-racial, but who gives a flying monkey?
If you’re comfortable with yourself and what you do, then one shouldn’t be to concerned with salty looks projected by salty bints.
Zebrahead like Rappaport.
Days before the March on Washington, Martin L. King is in his hotel bedroom practicing the most important speech of his life into a mirror, while Coretta, some security guards and Latrice, their assistant relax in living room…
MLK: “I have a dream, today!”
Latrice: Is he practicin’ that speech again?
Corretta King: You know it child… 15th time today and 40th of the week. This dream is gettin’ real—real tired, now.
Latrice: Coretta, you silly.
MLK: I have a dream, that little black boys and little white girls can hold hands…
*pause*
MLK: until they become big grown black bucks and fine ass thick white women who can fearlessly wear each other out like there’s no tomorrow free from persecution!
Latrice: What the hell? Hey martin, that ain’t your spee–. Girl, you betta get in there. He doin’ it again.
MLK blacksout: “And somebody might even film all that chocolatey-swirlified glorified freaknastiness for all the world to see.
Coretta (calling out): Martin!
MLK: Where my snowbunnies at?! Get yo hands up! When I say “Big Black” y’all say “Buck”…
Corretta: MARRRRR-TIN!!!!
Coretta storms the room….
MLK: Huh–oh… Uh… Corretta I was… Uh… See, I was…
Coretta: Out yo right mind is what you was!
MLK: But…
Coretta: See, nucca; Hoover was crazy, but that mess with you and them white girls in Kentucky and Alabama and Utah?! He was right everytime.
MLK: But Coretta, I—
Coretta: Shut up. and fix that speech!
And when we in D.C. if I even hear about you and a blonde, it’s on when we get home. I’mo get malcolm and his bowtied brothas to whoop yo chunky country ass!
*coretta storms out*
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“but when it comes down to dating or marriage it’s straight up B-L-A-C-K for 500K”
@ Amp
You think when it really comes down to it, if you really found a little lady you were crazy about, and she didn’t have enough melanin that you’d just drop it?
In my case, if I found me a shiksa that I dug, I wouldn’t hesitate to wife her. Same thing with a black girl. Or an Indian girl. Or an Asian girl. You get the idea.
Black Canseco, you are out of your mind. Ahahahahaha.
And when I called out Amp, I meant 500k Flea. I’m an idiot
Fuck. Actually, either of you can answer that since you both essentially said the same thing. Ok I’m done now.
You think when it really comes down to it, if you really found a little lady you were crazy about, and she didn’t have enough melanin that you’d just drop it
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Maybe. Maybe not. But as of yet I really haven’t crossed that line. My best friend since Junior High only dates white chicks & his “Unce” (Dude is 5 years younger than us) is bi racial & he only dates white girls. So when we go out, I feel obligated to be the one who holds it down for the race lol. I always get the vibe that when white girls hit on us, it’s out of curiosity. Now if she’s tryin to slide, that’s one thing, but I hate feeling like an oddity & I don’t look at white women like a trophy.The catch 22 is that for the most part, black girls that frequent some of the spots we hit up are usually out looking for white guys to hook up with. Go figga.
Ebony or Ivory, as long as it’s disease free coochie its all good with me.
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Try them ALL!!!!
by 2020 or so, black folks is gonna be damn near extinct in the US… Everybody’ll be beige or white or something… when you see regualr old, black folks–not African immigrants, but plain old my-peoples-from-down-south-and-got-crazy-nightmare-stories-for-that-azz black folk, people will treat them like cassette tapes like:
“y’all was cool for a minute, but we moved o—less baggage.”
Canseco.
Holy shit…
I have no words..
P.S.
I’m white
My philosophy:
If she’s paler than i am, i ain’t talking to her..
My one exception to the rule is LC =). Smart hip hop chicks are my biggest weakness, regardless of race lol.
I guess I just haven’t met that many white women who I vibe with like that. I know it’s not the PC way to go about things, but I’m only being honest.
K1Ng,
really? u seem to be in the minority on that one… All the white guys i’ve known over the years, i’d say less than 5% will ever go darker than say, Charlize Theron or Angelina Jolie… It’s like some sort of rule that i don’t know about.
Except for the cats that get into Asian chicks… a couple years ago one of my boys (he’s fillipino) told me that Asian cats call white guys likke that “Rice Kings”.
I just about fell out sideways.
times they-a-changin
And if a white woman dates a black guy, there’s even more of a negative stigma attatched to her. Like “Hey, Daphne goes Black? Well, I’m done chasin’ her”.
I don’t know if they think they’ll catch the negro cooties or their just too intimidated to follow a “brother”.
i’m a hybrid in an interracial relationship. never really saw what the big deal was until my bf’s family stopped speaking to him because i’m not corean.
it ain’t all black and white.
Hmm, I think you will find a good woman in the library or that woman who works in the orphanage.
Speaking of interracial dating I have a song and video called The Perfect Weekend addressing all issues about dating a white girl check it out: http://www.vimeo.com/1907146
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thank you.
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Hey P,
One of my best friends in college is Black+Korean. She got engaged to a guy who was like 1st generation Japanese. His parents were businessfolks that came to the states in the 70s…
Well when he brought her home, they straight disowned him Cut him off and everything.
They got married anyway and nobody from dude’s side showed up. It was beyond f’ugly.
but yeah, everybody’s got their hangups. on a related note, I think the best comedian for this stuff isn’t Rock or Chappelle but Russell Peters… dude kills me without being malicious towards any one group.
Canseco,
I was thinking so in 2020 if black folk in the USA will be an endangered specie, what measures will be taken with regards to their preservation?
If you are saying that they will be treated like cassette tapes does this mean that they will be deemed as ‘untouchables’ by society at large?
yea, they don’t play about that shit. doesn’t help that he’s the only son AND the youngest.
i think at this point, i feel worse about it than he does. certain amount of blame i can’t help but feel.
I personally don’t care. I’m Hispanic (Puerto Rican), and Italian. My chick is Japanese and Black. There are assholes, and good people of every ethnic makeup…so I cant look at people and think it’s right or wrong to date outside your ethnic background. I just need a good chick I can trust, be happy with, and who has my back. I think race should be in terms of one race. Human. Sounds corny, but hey, whatever.
But what about children who have to grow up being teased about their ethnicity? What about having a hard time trying to fit in growing up? Childhood is tough enough without extra baggage.
Everyone needs to see this video: http://www.vimeo.com/1907146
myspace.com/wizecrack
I’m mixed, so I tend to mess with only mixed females, as well. Keep the lines thin. Check Darius Sinclair™ Jr.
LOL @ P spelling Korean with a “C”. That’s a true South Central lady.
lol, nah.. that’s not why i spelled it that way.
http://www.goldsea.com/Air/Issues/Corea/corea.html
But what about children who have to grow up being teased about their ethnicity? What about having a hard time trying to fit in growing up? Childhood is tough enough without extra baggage.
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i think i got more shit from my own family than anyone outside of it. it wasn’t that hard. this whole “hey she’s not corean!” thing is the first time i’ve ever had to deal with my race ever blatantly being an issue. i just think it’s retarded to confine yourself to find love within one race. if it’s that just what you’re attracted to? fine, but like flea who’s tombout he’ll only marry a black chick? i find that very amusing. for lack of a better word.
@ GD: Never been in a situation where a lady of another race felt me on that level; only straight fuckin’ no lovin’ or dating bullshit. Most women of other races that my friends or I have met only wanted a sexual relationship, nothing deeper or beyond that. So I can’t honestly answer your question, but I if I have a choice I will take a Black woman any day of the week.
@ Amp: LC, K and that new girl are the ONLY exceptions to the rule. Oh yeah, Mariah Carey too!
@ P: Damn, that’s harsh! I mean, having your beliefs is one thing but total abandonment? Not cool on his fam’s part. One of my Uncles is married to a white lady. He was nervous to bring her around me because he thought I would disown him, until I explained that his decision is his and he doesn’t have to explain shit to me. Umma do me, no disrespect to no one.
@ P: Sorry if my pro-black attitude is “amusing” but that’s my stance homegirl. Like I said: I’m NOT racist, I just have my preference, that is all. I find women of all races attractive and sexy, 500K loves ‘em all. Still, when I walk down the isle (if a playa like me ever does!!! lol!!!) my wife will be Black, done deal. If you choose to marry outside your race then that’s cool too; love comes in many colours but my colour is Black.
And P, yeah, you told me about that a few years ago. My bad.
I’m dating a white chick for the first time in my life, i’ve tapped a few but wasn’t serious about any. my motto was “white girls for recreation, black girls for procreation” but i’m actually dating this girl for real. I’m gettin ready to deal with all the ish that’s gonna come my way from friends and fam. The truth is this girl has dope qualities, is fine as hell and there’s no reason why I should’nt date her other than her race, and right now it’s not reason enough to diss her. Plus I don’t eat pork either. lol. Never though I would date outside of my race, but when you meet someone who’s right for you it can transcend the superficial boundaries that society places on us. i’m just talking man.
okay, i’m done.
@ flea, you say you’re not but you’ll say we’re good enough to fuck but not good enough to marry. like i said, if you’re just not attracted to anything else.. i get it. but if you are and you’re willing to drop a perfectly good chick just cuz she ain’t black? i just don’t get it. so go ahead and do you but don’t say ‘no disrespect’ cuz that’s all that is.
matter of fact, i just don’t understand this whole holding the race down bullshit.
maybe i’m just feeling slighted.
I don’t think we’ll go the way of cassette tapes in terms of being untouchable, but i think we’ll go like memorex in terms of being “passe”…
whatever folks like about black culture will be owned by everyone and the rest will get tossed to the side, including the black skin…
i get where Flea’s at… there’s something to be said about preserving your sense of community and heritage. black history and identity really isn’t being passed down–only the most popular “fun” aspects… we make an amusement park out of it… not to say that black folks don’t engage in that either, but, you gotta start somewhere…
i like not having to explain every little reference point and nuance and factoid to someone and not having to play the “on behalf of black people, lemme explain”…
it’s hard enough to do that at work or with causal friends. it’s a huge weight when it’s a wife or a hubby….
but you love who ever God sends your way and you work the rest of it out.
but you love who ever God sends your way and you work the rest of it out.
that’s ALL i’m sayin
there’s something to be said about preserving your sense of community and heritage. black history and identity really isn’t being passed down–only the most popular “fun” aspects
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That’s my point. Thanks Canseco.
It’s like Black men & women wanna hook up with anything other than another black person & that’s kinda sad.
well written, i agree
@ P: Damn girl, WOOSAH!!! I understand that you are frustrated based on your personal situation, but remember that I said “no woman from another race has felt me on that level”. Every girl that I’ve met outside my race was only out for a quick fuck, nothing more. If perhaps in the future a woman of a different ethnicity expresses deep feelings for me that I can’t reject or decline……well I don’t know how I’ll react, who knows what the future may hold. Your mind says one thing but your heart may disagree, then all your inhibitions and core beliefs that you held so dearly get thrown out of the window. I’ve seen it happen to my friends and family, although it has never happened to me. As for now though, my choice is clear.
Let’s all make a pact.
Not to eat pork.
i like not having to explain every little reference point and nuance and factoid to someone and not having to play the “on behalf of black people, lemme explain”
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i’m not an adventure or an experiment or a sign of rebellion & sometimes that’s how I feel alot of white women who date black men feel. And I won’t lie & say I don’t get aggrivated when i see a beautiful black woman who has been brainwashed into believing that black men ain’t shit. There’s so much self hate amongst blacks.
If perhaps in the future a woman of a different ethnicity expresses deep feelings for me that I can’t reject or decline……well I don’t know how I’ll react, who knows what the future may hold.
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Perhaps the most lucid & concise post Flea’s ever made lol. Major co-sign Homie.
*motions to bartender*
“I’ll have a COSMOPOLITAN, please….”
P, you’re dating a Corean dude? he must be Methamphibian or Ben Baller…and I bet your breath smells like Kim Chee…eeeww…..lol
But I had some Corean food with my Chimay last night, and ALL of it was bangin’…anyways….
as the lines get blurred, race won’t matter as it once did…
this shit is much deeper than interracial dating…
the whole is supposed to be greater than the sum of its parts….
part of the reason Obama won is because people saw past the superficial shit and believed in his ideals and what he symbolized and stood for…look at the polling stats and you’ll see that Obama appealed to a very wide demographic…it just goes to show you that when we act as a collective unit, shit can and will get done.
Obama is the past, present, and future all rolled up into one. He most certainly is not the first product of an interracial relationship, but he represents where we are soon headed: a brown majority, and that fact needs to not only be accepted but embraced.
The good that comes out of this is that the harder it becomes to distinguish or ascertain racial identity, we’ll soon be judging people by merit and the content of their character…sound familiar?
Tha bad side to all this blending and mixing: identity and culture can possibly be diluted….hell, I can attest to that, I’m not White, but I speak per-fect Eng-lish (I overenunciate at times like my life depends on it), I don’t speak the language of my ancestors…so I’ve been domesticated & Anglicized, lol…I’d like to perpetuate the culture that I am a product of….
Teefus, droppin gems lol.
This post is exactly the reason TSS is the spot for the grown & opinionated. Where else can you get exclusive tunes & thought provoking convo?
Nah Right?
No disrespect to Eskay, but we major!
@ Conseco: THANK YOU MY NINJA!!! Well put, couldn’t have put it better myself. I grew up in the hood with my Grandmother, my friends either had their mother or father, but never both. I always thought that it was “normal” as a kid. As I got older, I realized how people of other races looked down upon the Black community, especially the men, for not staying with their women and raising their children. I promised myself that if I ever had kids, that they would have a two-parent household, grow up in a better community, and that my wife would be Black.
“It’s an amazing feeling. It’s our first colored president. I’m so proud to be a part of this country while that’s going on.” — Lindsay Lohan
Racism ain’t dead. It just doesn’t think it’s racist.
If perhaps in the future a woman of a different ethnicity expresses deep feelings for me that I can’t reject or decline……well I don’t know how I’ll react, who knows what the future may hold. Your mind says one thing but your heart may disagree, then all your inhibitions and core beliefs that you held so dearly get thrown out of the window.
that’s all i wanted to hear! cuz fuck race, i just want y’all to be open to the beauty of a multicultural relationship. and you may think it’s because of my current situation that this is getting to me more than it should but i’ve only ever dated outside my “race.” finding a mexican/jamaican hybrid around these here parts ain’t easy. the closed option of your statement is what got to me more so than anything else.
you go wherever your heart leads you – if you find true love in this lifetime you are blessed – my only issue is there’s a large segment of darker brothers and sisters (not specific to ethnicity) who date outside of their race because of a self-hatred for their dark skin.
and nah, i can’t fuck with kimchi. tried it and i don’t use this word often but i’m pretty sure i hated it. i fucks with that corean bbq tho. *drools*
and no, it ain’t ben baller. but he’s the most perfect blend of militant asian and afrocentric asian. i loves it.
For Artois check out my video The Perfect Weekend about dating a white girl. http://www.vimeo.com/1907146
“Shout out to all the slave masters, if it wasn’t for them we wouldn’t have all this ice and tatoos.” -Soulja Boy
!!!!!!
and nah, i can’t fuck with kimchi
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I have an aunt that’s Korean & kimchi is the shit lol! If you like spicy foods, kimchi is sure to scratch that itch.
its an acquired taste, for sure. i’ll try it again, but i dunno about this one.
No, racism isn’t dead…not by any stretch of the imagination.
There’s the inbred rural country hicks who are unabashedly, unapologetically, overtly, PROUD to be racist….usually found in states like Ohio, Pennsylvania, West Virginia…easy to point these ignoramuses out
then you’ve got “sophisticated” folk who are subversive and subtle with their prejudices….
either way, people don’t change overnight, and Obama’s victory means two things to me:
It meant EVERYTHING in the world to me for him to get elected (I damn near tear up when I think about it).
at the same time, it don’t mean shit.
unless…
we get past all this bullshit about race and start contributing positively…even the small shit matters, like taking a little pride in your surroundings and picking up…”don’t shit where you eat”…little acts over time can make a big difference…
it’s bigger than who you decide to call your boo or jumpoff…the only thing that should matter is if you vibe with that person and find them attractive…me? Man, Phife said it best on “Electric Relaxation”…I won’t even quote him cuz y’all should know that line by now, lol…if you don’t, then you’re as lost as Lupe, lol
Hmm.. I’d put my 2 cents in this…
but i only have a quarter, and I dont have the time to write it, nor u the time to read it.
*bottles it all up inside and finds a small corner to die in*
“Racism ain’t dead. It just doesn’t think it’s racist.”
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a fish prolly doesn’t realize it’s wet until it’s taken out the water and can’t breath.
It’s difficult (read: damn near impossible) to come up in a society as color-based as the US (and others) – especially living as one of the “dominant” culture- and come out unscathed, and unaffected by racism & prejudice.
anything’s possible
If you are interested in seeing some sexy white girls . They are on my slide on http://www.myspace.com/wizecrack
If you are interested in seeing an upcoming artist and a funny video about dating a white girl check out Wize Crack- The Perfect Weekend http://www.vimeo.com/1907146
anything’s possible
^
but I doubt it
half-man, half-amazin’….lol
exactly. ;)
Michael Jackson didn’t think it mattered if you were black or white and look at what happened to him…
Damn near broke.
translucent…
w/no damn nose…
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@ LC
you keep doing it the way you do it and I might wind up serenaded you w/ “21 Questions” (over a Dilla beat, of course) playing romantically in the background. Your knowledge of, and genuine love for my first love (Hip-Hop) is DAMN sexy.
I can’t spell tonight…
lol
WHY’D YOU HAVE TO REMIND ME OF ‘GOLDDIGGER’?
Wize Crack that video is hot and its funny ass hell. Do you have an album that I can buy?
East Coast my album is called The Photo Album its available at http://www.myspace.com/wizecrack Thanks for the love.
lol
yo, wize. when you pretend to be someone else, remember to change the name when you’re done.
thanks.
^ LMFAO!!! Oh snap!!
yeah, but…
to all the layyy-deeezzz..
go half on a kid wit’ me and he/she WILL come out lookin’ bee-you-teef-ull…i put that on mah momma AND mah daddy
I go well with everything
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*wonders how much sangria he’d have to have LC drink to convince her of that fact*
had to run out for a sec, whaddi miss? lol
kimchi is hot as hell and i love me some spicy food, but woah that kimchi ain’t right.
problem is you really shouldn’t be in a position where your culture and ethnicity are reduced to something you need to “get over”…
black ain’t better than korean ain’t better than japanese ain’t better than mexican… but in the US at least, there’s gotta be a hierarchy and if yours ain’t on top then you gotta get over it.
interracial dating gets used on that level a lot.
you know brothas always wanna “upgrade”–get them a white girl or go the Wesley Snipes route and chase japanese chicks and dog out sistahs every step of the way. (i know Wes wish he had a good sistah by his side right now…lol. who else gon’ be on that other side of tat glass for his ass.)
Teef trying to drug LC?! woah…
*gets Nancy Grace on the line*
BC: Hi Nancy? yeah, it’s Canseco again.
BC: No, no… this isn’t about the missing black girls, i know that’s not your thing. But lookit, I got a White Woman and—
*pause*
BC: Congratulations? No. She’s not for me., Um, but there’s this black dude’s trying to get her drunk for nefarious reasons.
*listens*
BC: that’s right: A White Woman getting victimized by a Black Man…
*listens*
BC: Yeah I think it’s a travesty, too.
*listens*
BC: Oh, well… she’s a hiphop head and—
*pause*
BC: hello? Nancy? Hello? She’s blonde, i think….
smh @ Wize Crack.
nah, no drug needed, but I can intoxicate her naturally…
*hears females chuckle in the background*
“y’all need to shuddup!”
anyways, what was I sayin’….oh yeah….
we could get to know each other over a nice cold bowl of cereal and yacht rock playing in the background….
so y’all muhfuckas need to just fall back…lol
hahahaha y’all some fools.
Alright, i ran the gamut of emotions on this discussion, but decided to plead the fif and stick to the sidelines. I enjoyed reading all of your opinions, though. It was a very interesting thread.
I only have two things to say here:
@ Wize Crack: ZING! (c) P
@ Canseco: Why you calling Nancy Grace, AGAIN?
Oh, and I can’t even front like I don’t love me some pulled pork sandwiches and bacon. It may be the dirtiest meat, but I don’t deny myself flavor.
Sangria for everyone!
we could get to know each other over a nice cold bowl of cereal and yacht rock playing in the background….
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LMAO!
No, Obama isn’t going to change the world of racism or interacial dating simply by being elected. It’s step in the right direction though.
That being said, I’m white and have been married to a black woman over 10yrs. We have 3 beautiful children that are raised with both cultures and both sides of the family. It’s not nor has it ever been an “experiment or to try something new” for either of us. This bullshit about kids growing up being picked on or isolated solely on their biracial background is just a made up story. Marijuana’s a gateway drug too isn’t it? If anything, my kids are more comfortable and social with all races.
We’ve never had any racial issues between the two of us. Honestly, you don’t think of it at all until you read something like this. Its everyone that has the problem ie. that old white couple that keeps staring at the doctors office with that frown, that black guy screaming at my wife from across the street trying to holler, that rich middle-aged white guy that is mentally undressing your wife while your trying to enjoy breakfast with your family, that instant hate and constant judging glare toward my wife from that black lady at the movie theater and on and on… Honestly though, its alot better now than we first got together 10yrs ago. Baby steps, I guess.
And I live in Ohio.
Teef,
juss be careful… If anything happen to LC, Nancy Grace, Gloria Steinem and Wendy Murphy and them heffas from The View gonna show up at your crib.
And they gon bring Rita Cosby to sit on you until fess up.
overt racism is becoming frowned down upon and slowly being swept under the rug. but prejudice will never die, stereotypes will never die. the underlying reasons for racism (the fear and confusion) will remain trapped in the closet
Chief78,
You sound like a really blessed man… few people can say they ain’t had issues related to race/culture/relationships in this country.
but there were no 450 year old white men enslaving Native Americans and Africans. There were no 200 year old folks propping up Jim Crow.
The varying glass ceilings aren’t the result of really old people brainwashing all the young hip open-minded among us.
in short, i’ve learned to not blame everything on “old white people” or “the old boys club” either. you don’t have institutions because a handful of really guys sitting in smoked filled rooms decree it so. (word to the builderbergs) you have them because generations of people go along with it–old and young alike.
your kids will be as comfortable as they’re taught to be, i would imagine. kids start off open, then they close up as they get older. and before you know it, they’re hold up in some gated community talking about how “they” are ruining the country and “they” need to get over and stop whining…
Look @ P holding down the comments
I’ll keep my thoughts to my self a la Contra, but I will say me and Chief have more in common than living in Ohio.
Yall real funny up here. Did yall check the video? http://www.vimeo.com/1907146
http://www.myspace.com/wizecrack
Joe the Plumber is from Ohio!!!! and he got a mixtape droppin’ hosted by Green Lantern.
http://www.hustleknockin.com/hustleknockin/2008/11/pressure-busts-pipes-joe-the-plumber-wurzelbachers-new-rap-album.html
i thought i’d give it a try for once MZ.
Yeah Wize Crack I saw the video. You bringing something new to the game.
Jimmy crack corn, and I don’t care
Jimmy crack corn, and I don’t care
Jimmy crack corn, and I don’t care
My massa’s gone away!
Well be around – I’ll be emailing you here in a few days or so.
Look @ Teef using Captn Cruncg to get his mack on. Go head playboy, do your thang!!
Green Latern needs an ass whipping for hosting a Joe the Plumber mixtape.
lol, didja see Joe The Plumber’s little tirades and rants on TV? He sounded like a toned-down version of The Angry White Man…
Angry White Man-Lite
funny thing is…that dude was actually on welfare at one point in his life…
they (the media) oughta follow this dude’s life from now ’til the end of Obama’s second term in 2016 (God willing)….
I hope to God that he can achieve that dream of buying his boss’ plumbing business…just so we can say “We told you so…”
if he doesn’t succeed, may all his failures fall squarely on his shoulders
“Look @ Teef using Captn Cruncg to get his mack on. Go head playboy, do your thang!!”
^ lol
wize/dat dude, stop it. foreal, lol. some of us have admin access and can check IP addresses. but then you go and make it easy by using the same email for all three.
wize is like that little kid that mother tells them to tell someone their aren’t home and the kid says my mommy says she isn’t home. lol
A brotha heads out to get some Mexican food and comes back to a hell of a lot of comments…cotdamn! This is why I love TSS, though, we like one big ass roundtable, then we can come back and talk about Corean food and ish. Coming from Mississippi, I got tales for days, too, lol.
Mississippi, man, don’t get me started on that country ass state. (brithplace of 3/4ths of my famlee, too.).lol!
Gary Payton is bitter about his Celtics time…
Sarah palin is still clueless about her McCain time…
@ black conseco,
yeah, I am blessed. No, I didn’t mean to imply that this is an “old people” thing, its more open with them, but by no means limited by any age. I haven’t said we haven’t had relationship issues, just that they’ve been related to race. Culture shock? Not really, both grew up in single parent households, pretty poor so the grass was pretty much the same color on both sides of the fence. Are we looked at differently sometimes, yeah; do alot of people still not think its right, yeah. As long as we love each other and our secure in ourselves, others’ prejudgments don’t matter. Somebody staring, or talking shit or whispering doesn’t affect my home, my marriage or my family unless we let it. As long as we raise our children with a different thinking; that is all we can do. We can’t change the past; we shouldn’t forget the past. We can only live our life the best way we can. Racism and prejudgment will always exist, I’m just saying the world is changing albeit slowly.
I think the media plays a part in our perception of beauty as well cause I used to pine away for the white girls as a youngun & I convinced myself that dark skinned girls were hideous. It wasn’t till I got older where I started to appreciate dark skinned women & think they were beautiful. Totally random but kinda on topic at the same time lol.
Bigga how is the T Pain album you bought today?
@Black Canseco:
I thought I was the only one who notice that shit about Payton. His distain for Rondo is funny. You ask him he will tell you Harold Miner is better than Rondo. LOL
^ haha
Baskin Robbins
^ I think that comment was more random then mine LOL!
@Wize
LOL
Don’t be mad that I would rather BUY T-Pain then watch your Video for free. lol
Shouts to Baby Jordan!!!
Harold Miner was beyond wild at USC–then he ate a couple fatted calves before joining the Heat… Dude was never right after that first holdout… Poor dude, i had such high hopes for him.
Rondo spit shining that rock while GP still thinkin, “i shoulda kept Kemp sober and celibate”
He was nice in college; but in the pros he was a 6’2 guard that could not dribble or shoot and that equals Welcome to Fat Burger! may I take your order? lol
Its all good Bigga I’m not on here to hate on anybody send me a friend req http://www.myspace.com/wizecrack peace to everybody on here!!!1
*ques up Ebony & Ivory*
Hey who was dat dude that had the White Girls song that was always on BET pissin’ sistahs off? Somebody cue that one up…
lol!
^ LOL!
http://digg.com/arts_culture/Will_Obama_change_interracial_dating_as_we_know_it?OTC-widget
Digg that if you will.
Mighty Casey was “White Girls.” Believe it or not though, dude was/is smart. He’s changed his whole steez & stopped marketing that BS. He writes now & is actually pretty good. He dropped a vid a few mths ago that was representative of the change, wanna say it had kids in & shit.
Mighty Casey’s MySpace:
http://www.myspace.com/mcmightycasey
“Don’t tell Minister Farrahkhan, He don’t wanna know what’s goin’ on…”
I effin’ loved BET Uncut lol!
Mighty Casey is a fool. The vid for White girls was funny as hell
i think Mighty Casey is on some J-Live/Asheru/Defari shit….yep, if I’m correct…he’s a teacher.
It was interesting reading through this. I hesitate to say whether having a preference about who you date is a moral issue or if its just a preference but I think for most people its just a preference. I would like to consider myself an equal opportunity employer but I know I prefer black men. I also think its interesting how the black girl-white guy combination is one of the rarest combinations.
When I was younger I used to have a problem with interracial relationships, I was the typical angry black woman, and I have no idea where that anger was coming from because it was so stupid and irrelevant. I suppose I bought into the stereotype that most interracial unions were some kind of fetish and I guess I felt upset by what I assumed was a perversion of race and love. However, i got over that pretty quickly and i’m thankful for it. This world is crazy enough. If you can find love and happiness anywhere for any reason you should hold on to it and as long as you aren’t hurting anyone opposition should bow out of your way.
…lookin at the pic again and lmao at that little boy sneaking up on Barack and Mr. Drummond with the tree branch. wtf
Chief, waddup fam. We’ll have to talk soon..
lol @ Mr. Drummond
But what about children who have to grow up being teased about their ethnicity? What about having a hard time trying to fit in growing up? Childhood is tough enough without extra baggage.
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Horrible reasoning, IMO. If you are going to worry that much about what others think and do, you may as well sit in your house and never come out.
Does it suck not fitting in? Sure. Does it suck getting teased? Without a doubt. But if you are going to let what others say and do dictate how your life is lived, you may as well already be dead.
Idiot people are a sad fact of life–they’re everywhere you go. No need to mold your life around their ignorance.
^ I just think it’s selfish to have kids & not take into account how your choices will effect your children.
Canseco, so let us say 20 years or so down the line, aspects of the black culture are juiced to the max by society as a whole, you know like a buffet. We’ll take this aspect, we’ll take that aspect, a little bit of this and oh a little bit of that, however, we’ll omit the rest ie the black skin tone.
Are we to assume that because such individuals may become a minority they will be treated as second class citizens by the rest of society?
You know like oh everybody is mixed race now and you are some what a product of the past. I don’t expect society to be as blatent as that, but you know where I am coming from.
If that happens then what about children from other backgrounds who are not product of inter racial relationships? Will they suffer the same fate you know get treated like a Memorex or a Colecovision?
I know this is all hypothetical at the moment, but hey it makes for interesting food for thought. When you think about it more, it could actually lead to a new strain of racism coming to fruition, because of the various culture and sociological shifts and wot not.
^ I just think it’s selfish to have kids & not take into account how your choices will effect your children.
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I can dig that. But you also have to know that YOU directly affect your child’s upbringing–not everyone else out there. Negativity is a part of life that will always be here, so it is up to the parents at home to let them know it is out there and how to properly deal with it.
The racism, insensitivity and shortcomings of others is no reason to not have kids. By letting that dictate what you do, they’ve already won. And not that it’s a game with winners and losers, either. You catch my drift though.
I’d like to think that with good parenting, a child can overcome those obstacles, which by the way, are minimal in the grand scheme of things. On second thought, I KNOW a child can overcome those things because I’m one of those kids. Born a bi-racial baby in the South and adopted by a white mother. Trust that I caught flack from both sides of the fence, and it sucked. But with the guidance of my moms and the love of my family, the haters didn’t matter in the end.
@ BC
Sorry it took so long for me to respond…had a busy day..
YES.
70% of the girls i go after are latinas..
15% are asian
5% are black
5% are white
and 5% are other (I’m going for a native american right now…call me John Smith!)
lol
Now those percentages can’t be 100% right, but you get the picture.
Honestly, I really do feel like marriage and kids will be my future. My wife don’t gotta be a certain race for me to marry her, i just need someone i REALLY feel like i can live with for the rest of my life. My kids will be fine. They might get teased, but i’m gonna work my hardest to be a good father, which is why i don’t worry about that sort of thing. I was teased my whole childhood for being different than most, but i feel like that made me more of an individual, cuz one day i said fuck it and just started being myself…I’m white, but that don’t mean i need to be what other people expect me to be…and neither will my bi-racial children! lol
Im dating a white girl (im black) and although there are some race issues she doesn’t get, i’ve found that i’ve learned some of the white perspective of racism. It’s hilarious how tactful any white person has to be when sayin anything racial, when any other race can say whatever
Plus most black chicks are too much drama lol
I can definately speak on this.. I was raised to not see a color.. See the person for who & what they are.. My best friend growing up was a black girl.. I mean until like the 9th grade. I had many different kinds of friends.. & was never taught by my parents or anyone that dating outside of your race was wrong or looked down upon.. Until I moved to MS.
Talk about WOW.
Things might as well still be segregated here.. Their aren’t any mixed clubs.. It’s all black or white. They aren’t really any mixed schools.. Things are so seperated & different here. The people are just so.. ignorant & sheltered. So to say racism doesn’t exist any longer is a LIE. It may improve in SOME areas – but not in the south.
& having dated a black guy – I know what it feels like. I lost almost all of my white friends when I started dating outside of my race & when white guys find out – they consider it trashy & don’t even want to talk to you.. It’s like you become tainted. Word spreads like wildfire when an attractive non-black girl dates a black guy. Black girls hate too – just not as bad as the white do.. They give you looks.. Especially if the guy is attractive & doing well for himself.. They act like you’ve stolen something from them.. It’s like a slap in their face to see a black man with a non-black woman.. Who the fuck really cares..?!
People here are raised to not like blacks.. Parents put their kids in private schools so they won’t have to be around blacks. It’s just.. Amazing.
After the elction.. People were pissed off. I won’t even lie. At a few jobs here a few people were fired for arguing & all out boxing about the election.. At a high school here – you CANNOT say Obamas name or you will be suspended. The only time you can say it is in history class. Other than that – you cannot.
You can just feel the tension from everything – it’s crazy.
K,
if you think the South is bad (my fam’s from mississippi) check out Chicago… I seen crap in Chicago i wouldn’t wish on anybody. It’s insane.
Baby Paw,
i can see something crazy happeneing… you see it with wiggers and a lot of ethnic groups that get accused of “acting black” by folks in their own communities. they’re looked down upon as if black culture is something to be ashamed of. it’s goofy in that you may just being a culture vulture and trying to co-opt stuff from people/communities you don’t respect in the slightest, but there’s a sense of “why embrace these inferior folks when you were born into ‘good stock’?”
i can see some type of cultural elitism emerging where “street” and urban and black gets pushed to the bottom regardless of racial affiliation.
it’ll be interesting. hopefully i’ll be so old by then that the only i’ll care about is finding jesus.
Man am I mad I missed this yesterday…
So close to home.
Something New.
Harold Miner = Baby Jordan = Jordan’s talent as a baby.
To sho: Black girls are too much drama? And you black men WONDER WHY black women don’t care much for black men who date interracial date.
And as for the rest of you: I guess black women are just big, bad and evil, huh? I guess you ALL have a horror story about black girls, while you guys pretend to be all innocent. When in reality, the other women are the main culprits by trying to rub your black men in the faces of black women.